The Obvious Sales Mistake That’s Costing You Deals

by John Preston  - September 27, 2025

Today's tip seems so obvious you might wonder why it needs to be said: Ask for the sale.

Yet this is probably the number one reason salespeople fail to close deals. They think they're asking for the sale, but they're actually doing something completely different.

The Fake Ask:

Most salespeople use weak, open-ended questions:

  • "What do you think about this?"
  • "Does this work for you?"
  • "Do you think this could help your business?"

These aren't sales closes. They're conversation starters.

The Real Ask:

A proper sales close is always a yes-or-no question that leads directly to payment:

  • "Are you ready to move forward?"
  • "Are you ready to buy today?"
  • "Are you ready to become partners with me?"

The Litmus Test:

Here's how to know if you're really asking for the sale: What is your closing question?

If you can immediately answer this question with a specific phrase you use consistently, you're on the right track. If you have to think about it, you're probably not actually asking for the sale.

Why Salespeople Avoid the Ask:

  • Fear of rejection
  • Concern about seeming pushy
  • Hoping prospects will volunteer to buy
  • Lack of confidence in their solution
  • Poor understanding of closing techniques

The Professional Standard:

Great salespeople have a consistent closing question they use in every presentation. They've practiced it, refined it, and deployed it confidently because they know that without the ask, there's no sale.

Implementation Strategy:

  1. Develop your standard closing question
  2. Practice it until it feels natural
  3. Use it consistently in every presentation
  4. Expect a yes-or-no response
  5. Be prepared for both answers

Your Closing Challenge:

Right now, write down your exact closing question. If you don't have one, create it. Then use it in your next three sales conversations.

Remember: If you don't ask, the answer is always no.

Comment HELP if you want to develop a powerful closing question that consistently gets prospects to make a decision.

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About 

John Preston

John Preston is a Hall of Fame sales and business coach who transforms complex concepts into actionable insights for entrepreneurs and sales teams, drawing from his 22+ years as a television news reporter and producer. 

As the creator of JP Business Academy, he specializes in making business education accessible through live, engaging training sessions and online teaching.

After successfully running several neighborhood magazines, John discovered his passion for helping other business owners grow. His practical teaching approach has generated over $100 million in sales and helped thousands of entrepreneurs thrive. Based in Danville, Kentucky, he combines business coaching with innovative content creation, including the "40 Flushes" series - business books designed for bite-sized learning.

Through his membership-based platform, which features live webinars, coaching sessions, and practical resources, John continues his mission of making business and sales education digestible, actionable, and entertaining for busy entrepreneurs. Be sure to take his free sales course on handling objections at
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